Connect with us

Politics

A male doctor refused to tie my tubes because a ‘woman shouldn’t make that decision without a man’, I was furious

A WOMAN has claimed a male doctor refused to tie her fallopian tubes as “a woman should not make that decision without a man”.

Sarah-Jo Baskin took to TikTok after someone asked people to share stories about the “most sexist thing a man has ever said to you.”

tiktok/@bfeedingmomma

Sarah-Jo Baskin revealed on TikTok a male doctor had told her she can’t get her tubes tied after a traumatic labour[/caption]

Sarah-Jo recalled a conversation she had with a male doctor following the traumatic birth of her second child at the age of 27.

Complications put her and her son in medical danger – which lead her to not wanting to have any further children. 

She explained: “Mine has got to be when I was 27 years old. I had just had my second child and I was talking to the doctor about getting my tubes tied because at that point I did not want any more children.

“The labour and delivery almost killed me and my son, so I was like, Nope, don’t want any more.”

tiktok/@bfeedingmomma

Sarah-Jo recalled a conversation she had with a male doctor following the traumatic birth of her second child at the age of 27[/caption]

Although Sarah getting her fallopian tubes tied is well within her rights, she claims the male doctor refused to do it. 

He told her he believes “it’s best that a man and a woman make that decision together” and that he thought she shouldn’t make the decision by herself. 

Sarah-Jo was baffled by his refusal, and said: “What does that have to do with anything? This is my body and I want to have my tubes tied.”

The doctor allegedly responded: “I’m not tying your tubes, I do not think a woman should make that decision.”

This is my body and I want to have my tubes tied.


Sarah-Jo Baskin

Many people were quick to say that they hoped Sarah-Jo had reported him. 

They also queried if he would have had the same hesitations if a man had asked him for a vasectomy.

The NHS website advises: “If you have a partner, discuss it with them before you decide.

“If possible, you should both agree to the procedure, but it’s not a legal requirement to get your partner’s permission.”


And a morbidly obese woman fell pregnant again despite having her Fallopian tubes tied SIX years ago.

Previously, a mum who wanted more kids woke up from C-section to find she’s been sterilised.