My wife and I had a threesome with a hot younger woman…but now I only want her

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD fantastic sex with a woman ten years younger than me while my wife watched.

It was supposed to be fun for me and my wife but now this gorgeous woman and I have started falling for each other.

I’ve been married for 15 years. We are both 45 and we have a son of 21. We’ve always had an active sex life and my wife has a wardrobe full of role-play outfits and toys which spice up our sex play.

Recently she suggested we try something even more adventurous — a threesome with another woman.

I was hesitant at first but when she showed me the website and there were some really attractive women on there, I gave her the green light.

This nice-looking woman came over during the first lockdown. We drank white wine and then had sex.

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It wasn’t the best sex, as I felt self-conscious — after all, it was the first time I’d had sex with someone other than my wife for years. Since then we’ve had threesomes twice more, with different women.

I could not really see the attraction and wanted to stop before the last time but my wife begged me to try again, with a woman she had found and said was a “bombshell”.

And she was right. From the moment this stunning woman arrived at our home, all I could think about was having sex with her.

She’s 35 and her husband works abroad. We had sex in all manner of ways, and I felt I had the energy of a 20-something man again. Her body was incredible and I couldn’t get her out of my head.

We’ve had a threesome twice with her since and I’ve been to her home once to have sex with just her.

I’ve told her I’ve got feelings for her and she said she feels the same about me. She said her marriage is all but over. I’m not sure where to go with this but I feel like a teenager again.

DEIDRE SAYS: Everyone is capable of fancying others when they are in a long-term relationship – the big issue is whether you act on it.

You’ve been married a long time and enjoy an amazing relationship. Are you ready to throw this away for somebody you’ve merely had great sex with? In reality you’ve had sex four times and barely even held a conversation.

Put some real energy into your marriage and see if you can revive your relationship. My support pack 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex is full of ideas to get your mojo back without involving anyone else.

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