I’m in a relationship with a woman – but dreaming of sex with another man

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M in a relationship with a woman but I’m dreaming of sex with another man.

Back before I met my 31-year-old fiancée, I had full sex with two different men, and also enjoyed threesomes with both men and women.

I’ve never had a desire to be in a relationship with a guy, but I do love having sex with men

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I’m 36, and have never had any desire to be in a relationship with a guy, but I do love having sex with men.

My ex-girlfriend used a sex toy with me but I haven’t asked my fiancée to as she is very conventional when it comes to sex.

I’ve bought a sex toy to use myself but that doesn’t fulfil my needs.

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Now I’m contemplating hiring a male prostitute but I really don’t want to cheat.

How do I stop this insatiable craving?

DEIDRE SAYS: It sounds like it’s not so much being with another man that appeals to you, as the physical sensation of sex with a male.

If you love your fiancée, it’s not worth risking your future with her – as well as your health and hers – by cheating with a male prostitute.

Perhaps you could explain to your fiancée what you would like in bed and perhaps she will agree to explore this with you?

And ask yourself – are you really ready to commit to her?

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