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My husband spends a fortune on X-rated sites but denies he has a porn problem
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband is spending a fortune on these girl “fan sites” and “babe” sites through the TV.
Yet when I challenge him about it, he says: “They just appear on my phone.”
My husband won’t admit to having a porn problem despite spending a fortune on ‘fan sites’
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I’m not a fool.
I know he’s got an obsession with these women who strip off for money.
The problem got worse in lockdown and as soon as I am out of the room, he is logging on to one of these channels.
If I question him about his sky-high phone bill, he’s in denial.
He just says, “You’re weird” – as if it’s me with the problem.
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How can I get through to him that he is wasting his money and has an addiction?
He’s 49 and I’m 51.
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DEIDRE SAYS: His reaction when you confront him is “gaslighting” and must be upsetting.
But watching so much pornography – even soft porn – is training his body to respond to that, rather than to your touch.
Do you enjoy a healthy sex life together? If things could do with spicing up, ask him what he would enjoy – and you can tell him too.
My support pack Internet Pornography Worry explains more about how he can wean himself off these sites and back to you.
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