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I found naked selfies on my fiancé’s phone – is he cheating on me?

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M a gay man of 32 who is due to be married in six months. But can I really trust my fiancé?

He’s 25 and went to a family wedding in Northern Ireland a fortnight ago, staying in a hotel alone.

Is my fiancé being honest?

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Fast forward to yesterday and I was looking for a picture of my fiancé’s passport on his phone and saw photos of him taken during the trip, lying naked on the bed and clearly aroused.

I confronted him, asking whether he was with anyone else, but he said no.

He said he felt horny because we were messaging but when I checked the time, I was in meetings.

The next photo was a headshot.

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Putting these two pictures together is what is sometimes used for a profile on a gay dating app.

Is he being honest?


DEIDRE SAYS: He may be and you don’t know he’s cheated.

People are constantly taking photos of themselves, even in compromising positions.

If you have any doubts, do talk to him. If you are still not feeling reassured, postpone your wedding.

My support pack called How To Look After Your Relationship will make sure everything between you is as strong as it can be.

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