My friend gets insanely jealous any time a guy flirts with me

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN a man shows an interest in me, my best friend gets wildly jealous.

We are both female and my friend is married with a little boy. I’m single.

I like meeting new people but my friend can be rude to them

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We have known each other since primary school and are both 25.

We go swimming together on Tuesday nights and if we get in the hot tub or sauna afterwards, sometimes men join us and talk to us.

I like meeting new people but my friend can be rude to them.

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She says men talking to us in the sauna makes her uncomfortable.

I’ve apologised but I’d really like to meet somebody new. This is spoiling our friendship.

DEIDRE SAYS: It may be more to do with how she feels about herself, rather than how she feels about these men talking to you.

She is a married woman and may feel she is being inappropriate, although this would not be a problem for most people.

Tell her that you won’t be offended if she decides to get changed early if somebody is talking to you and you will catch her up in ten minutes.

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