Politics
I spend my life shouting at my husband because he won’t wear his hearing aids
DEAR DEIDRE: BECAUSE he doesn’t feel like a “real man” with his hearing aids in, my husband refuses to wear them. But the constant need to repeat myself is driving me insane.
He partially lost his hearing a few years ago after a bad car accident.
Now I spend my life shouting at him
For more advice from Dear Deidre
No issue is too small, too large or too embarrassing. Read our personal replies here.
It has been hard for him, going from being a really able, active man to relearning the basics.
He is 56, I’m 53 and we’ve been married for 28 years.
At Christmas I bought him some “invisible” hearing aids. I figured he would feel happier if he thought people couldn’t see them so much. But he refuses to wear them.
Get in touch with Deidre
Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
Send an email to deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk
You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.
It’s frustrating because they were expensive and now I spend my life shouting at him.
What can I do to make him feel better about wearing them?
Most read in Dear Deidre
DEIDRE SAYS: It sounds like your husband is putting his pride before his comfort.
Tell him you understand it must be frustrating for him to miss what is going on – and it is frustrating for you to constantly have to repeat yourself.
Suggest he tries wearing his hearing aids when it’s just you two at home.
He will then be able to hear – and will hopefully become more comfortable with the idea of wearing them outside the house.
NEXT IN TODAY’S DEAR DEIDRE I spent hundreds on a mini-break but my girlfriend complained the whole time
READ DEIDRE’S STORIES Sam is willing to give Max’s kinky ideas a go – but Anna grows suspicious
GET IN TOUCH How the page works and how to contact us
