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My husband is texting a gay man about Lady Gaga – should I be worried?
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband’s been messaging a random guy. When I asked about him he insisted it was innocent.
He said they were talking about Lady Gaga as they are both fans and offered to show me the messages to prove it.
I replied that I don’t think it’s OK for him to start randomly messaging a gay guy.
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I am a 39-year-old man and my husband is 31. I have always had some insecurity. I think it is partly due to me being older than my husband.
I thought it was strange to be sending messages to this guy.
My husband says it is sad I have such little faith in him and he doesn’t know how I can expect him not to talk to anyone.
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I replied that I don’t think it’s OK for him to start randomly messaging a gay guy.
Am I being over-sensitive and overreacting?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Since he is openly texting this guy in front of you, then you don’t have anything to worry about.
You are the one he loves and that he wants to be with you. It’s your own insecurities causing the problem.
My support pack Coping With Jealousy explains how to deal with your insecurities more positively.
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