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I get bored and can’t message girls longer than a week but I want a girlfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: I STRUGGLE to keep a conversation going with girls I meet online.

The first few days after meeting are fine but for some reason after a week or so I tend to lose interest.

I am not sure if it is me being too picky with girls or whether I give up too easily

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That’s when the slow replies start until eventually there is nothing.

I am a 23-year-old single guy. I would describe myself as fun, outgoing and always looking for a laugh.

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But I am not sure if it is me being too picky with girls or whether I give up too easily.

I am not a vain person, nor do I think I am better than anyone else. I just can’t help how I am feeling. It’s like it is out of my control.


DEIDRE SAYS: Most people love flirting and getting to know new people but after the initial high we can find ourselves becoming bored and restless.

You might be someone who likes the “chase” rather than the relationship.

Perhaps you’re presenting yourself in the wrong way online and therefore attracting the wrong types of women.

Make sure your dating profile concentrates on your personal qualities and interests.

My support packs, Love Online and Finding The Right Partner For You, should help.

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