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My girlfriend’s lying to me and her top friend on Facebook is another man
DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS accused of not trusting my girlfriend when I saw her top friend on a social media app was a guy.
When I asked about him she said it was nothing, just the app showing who is online.
She denies she talks to him and accuses me of not trusting her
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I don’t use Facebook or Messenger, so I let it go. I asked a friend a few days later, who told me a top fan is the person you talk to most.
My girlfriend went mad when I asked her about him again. She denies she talks to him and accuses me of not trusting her.
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I don’t actually trust her anymore and I don’t understand why she lied if it is harmless.
Am I a fool being played? Is something going on? I’m a 27-year-old guy and my girlfriend is 25.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Generally there is nothing wrong with your girlfriend talking to another man. The only way it would be a problem is if she’s flirting or acting inappropriately with him.
She’s being secretive so no wonder you feel anxious.
Explain you are worried about your relationship as she’s hiding things from you and you need her to be honest with you, including her communications with this man.
My support pack Standing Up For Yourself will help.
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