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My boyfriend loves watching videos of sexy women on TikTok
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE caught my boyfriend countless times watching videos of other women on Facebook and TikTok. Are all men like this?
We’ve been together for three years and we are both 29.
He follows loads of girls on social media – am I not pretty enough?
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I’ve called him out on it a couple of times but he says that he loves me and I have nothing to worry about.
He follows loads of girls on social media and when his nose is in his phone, I can hear women shrieking or laughing when he plays their video clips.
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It makes me feel so inadequate and insecure.
Am I not pretty enough? Do men who do this feel their partners aren’t good enough?
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DEIDRE SAYS: This is about respect and trust. Talk to your boyfriend and let him know how his appetite for videos of scantily clad women makes you feel.
Can you both find a level that you are happy with?
Your reaction suggests you have low self-esteem so explain to him how you need to feel valued.
If his attention is constantly on other women, your confidence will plummet. And similarly, if he tells you he loves you, then try to hear that and have faith.
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