I refuse to be my sister’s bridesmaid – she’s getting married to my cheater ex but that’s not even the worst part

HAVING A family member get married is such an exciting time for many of us.

However, one woman is fuming at the thought of her sister getting married and has even refused to be her bridesmaid.

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But it’s not just because she’s jealous of her sister having a big day before her, it’s something a bit more peculiar than that.

One woman took to Reddit to explain her unique situation, as she revealed that her sister is getting married to her ex-boyfriend.

Not only this, but her ex-boyfriend actually cheated on her whilst they were dating.

And he didn’t just cheat with anyone, he was actually cheating with the woman’s sister.

The anonymous woman wrote: “I know the title sounds bad but here me out.

“I (24F) have a sister (28F) Lexi. Me and Lexi used to be really close and she was basically my best friend.

“However, around 7 or 8 months ago I found out my boyfriend Jonah was cheating on me with her. 

And now they are getting married in August.”

The woman explained that the siblings hadn’t spoken since she discovered her boyfriend was being unfaithful.

Due to the upset she was feeling, the woman explained that she told her sister it was ‘messed up’ that she was even being asked to be a bridesmaid.

The woman explained that her sister was shocked that she didn’t want to be a bridesmaid for her big day.

She continued: “She also told me that she had already bought the dress. 

“Then said I would be letting her down and wasting the money she spent on the dress.

“I said to her that just because she bought me a dress doesn’t mean I have to be in her wedding. 

“She started crying and telling me how I was being insensitive and holding a grudge against her. 

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“I tried to tell her that I was sorry but she didn’t listen and hung up. I did feel bad.”

But it gets worse…

Not only was the woman’s sister upset with her, the parents were also annoyed with her for not being there for her sister’s big day.

She explained: “Yesterday I went to my parent’s house for dinner. What I didn’t know is that Lexi had called them and told them what I said. 

“So halfway through dinner, my mom says, ‘you know Lexi and Jonah are happy together and they deserve to have the wedding they want.’

“I looked up at her and said, ‘what?’ She says, ‘Lexi told me what happened and you should be her bridesmaids. It’s been so long since what happened you shouldn’t care anymore and Lexi deserved to be happy’.”

“I looked at her and said, ‘She can be happy but I’m not going to be in a wedding with my cheating ex boyfriend, and watch him marry my sister.’ 

“They looked at me like I had slapped them across the face. 

“My dad stood up and said, ‘You are selfish and you will be in that wedding or you can leave and don’t bother coming back.’” 

The woman added that soon after, she left the dinner and hasn’t spoken to her family since. 

However, she is now feeling conflicted and asked Reddit users if she was in the wrong for her actions. 

The post now has over 200 comments, with many users on her side about not wanting to attend the nuptials.

One said: “It may be hard to hear but you are better off without your parents and your sister in your life. They are all toxic.”

Another wrote: “Don’t go to the wedding. You have done nothing wrong and you are not being selfish. You are allowed to feel as you do and if this is the attitude of your sister and parents, you are definitely better off without them. I suspect a baby may be involved.”

A third commented: “Takes a lot of nerve for anybody to even suggest you attend the wedding, let alone be in the bridal party. Yeah, they can have the wedding they want, but they can just have it without you..”