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My husband is constantly listening to others but never asks me how I’m feeling

DEAR DEIDRE: AS a very sociable person, my husband is constantly going to the pub and lends an ear to whoever needs to talk.

He then comes home with the weight of other people’s problems on his shoulders and is miserable.

My husband is constantly listening to others but never asks me how I’m feeling

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It makes me feel neglected and it brings me down.

We are both 32 and I sit at home in the evening and watch TV.

We argue when he has too much to drink. I used to like going to our local, but it’s a man’s pub where they watch football, snooker or darts and there are no women for company.

He won’t stop listening to others there and yet he never asks me how I am feeling.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Communication is broken between you and he is talking to others instead.

No wonder you feel alone. When he is sober, find a moment to tell him you would like to do more as a couple.

Check out meetup.com, which may help you find friends too, as well as discovering something you both enjoy.

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