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My girlfriend said she was ‘done with men’ but she’s watching heterosexual porn
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my bisexual girlfriend and I got together, she told me she was “done with men”, but I’m worried she’s changed her mind.
I’m 32 and female and she’s 28. It’s never bothered me she considers herself bisexual.
I don’t mind her watching pron – but she was watching a heterosexual couple
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But when I was using her laptop the other day, I noticed that she’d left a few tabs open. One was porn.
I don’t mind her watching it – it gives her ideas of new things she’d like to try.
But my concern is that she was watching a heterosexual couple.
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She said the only reason she’d clicked on that was because she likes that type of porn.
But what if she misses sex with a guy?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your girlfriend may be telling the truth – she might just enjoy that type of porn.
Just because she previously had relationships with men doesn’t mean she’s not fully satisfied with your relationship now.
But the only person who knows how your girlfriend is really feeling is her.
A good way to start a conversation to find out is to both write down bullet points on what’s working and what’s not.
Then you can both make a plan on how to move forward.
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