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My boyfriend is so paranoid about me cheating he checks under my bed for men

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend is so paranoid that he checks under my bed to make sure I haven’t sneaked a guy into my room.

We’re both 19 and have been together for four months.

He is so paranoid about me cheating it is unhealthy

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I know this isn’t normal behaviour.

How can I help him get over this?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your boyfriend’s behaviour is extreme and it’s likely something happened in his past to make him like this.

Perhaps he was let down by one of his parents or in a previous relationship.

But that’s no excuse. He needs to get support.

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